What TF have I been up to, you ask?

Note: If you’ve been looking for online dating stories since this summer, my bad. While I have gone on several dates in the NC summer heat, the meetings were anything but hot. Nothing to write about. At all. I guess I could have written about how boring or predictable they were, but that gets boring and discourages folks, too. But great news, I am "talking" to someone.

Do you sometimes feel like it's everyone else getting engaged, married, etc? Me freaking too! This is normal guys, as long as you aren't dwelling on the shit. I pray you're not losing sleep over it...really.

Because I am still running across married men in these singles streets y'all, and they are all about that infidelity life. They do the most, in the most sloppy ways imaginable.

But whether those dudes (and women *sigh*...before someone retaliates with "it's not just men!") aren't faithful spouses but dedicated cheaters, is not my problem. Imma just step over them until the one who wants monogamy meets my destiny. Or, something like that...

"Well, what else, besides thinking about male companionship have you been up to?"

Just this past week, I once again took the Real Estate class exam -- the exam you take before the state test -- and failed. Again. I am done. No biggie; writing is my shit and I am glad to be back on the keyboard.

My fibroid tumors have made a return visit for the holidays and so I have been in a fight for my uterus for a few months now. Natural cures or simple ways to deal until the surgery will be gladly appreciated.

The guy I am talking to? He lives is out of town, yet seems to have a closer connection to me than mofos 15-20 minutes away. He is a 6'3 gentleman who seems to want what I want. But due to that last damn fiasco  I am taking things as slow as I can in a semi-horny state. yes, I am over that person but I'd be a fool not to take some of that drama and turn it into a teachable moment. Can't wait to ring in the New Year with a new friend...

Finally, I am currently working on a piece to describe how 10 random dudes respond to "Hay Kang!" Because men like being called Kang, whether they are one or not. Stay tuned.

BTW, my divorced-and-happy chica is making an appearance here and has been posting on the Facebook pizz-age. Check her out y'all.

'Tis all for now.